Are you an alpha male or metrosexual? Who makes a better boyfriend?

Do u wish that the guys u date would be more like your girlfriends? He would say the right thing at the right time, actually notice that you've had different, more stunning clothing and prepare a deliciously awesome meals just  for the two of u? It sounds almost impossible but is dating a guy who's in touch with his feminine side would make u happy in the long run? Or would u get super tired of fighting with him for your share time in the bathroom? Men, they are completely different from women, and though their appeals may sometimes get on our nerves, these appeals make them seem more macho and stronger. 

Here's the question to the females: Will a man's man make u happy or would u be better off with a guy who borrows your hair product? Which to opt for as boyfriend? An alpha male or metrosexual?

Here's the question to the males: Which categories are u under? What are your positive traits and flaws? What makes u so attractive or less attractive?

DATING AND RELATING
The Metrosexual
PROS: As he gets the whole issue of gender equality, u won't have to convince him that women should not be objectified. He'll do romantic stuff like organize a sunset dinner or wake u up with breakfast in bed. He'll also be happy to choose which updo complement best with your outfits. If you're feeling down, he'll notice it right away and offer offers that will make u melt, without having to be asked. He'll also be able to tell when there's a problem. He'll realise that communication is important for relationship and will even read self-help book to further improve your intimacy.
CONS: In an argument, he will throw in all annoying stuff when u wish he would keep it simple. While other guy you've dated might have a bad fight with u and then move on, u'll find yourself having to reassure him for the next few days or weeks that u still likes him. He's often being emo and too much on feminine sides. U may start to crave for someone who is less appearance-focused instead.


The Alpha
PROS: He won't be so fussy about what u cook for dinner. He loves to party and get adventurous on weekends or staying up all night. When you're with him, he'll make u feel secure, protected, desirable and totally feminine. Hanging out with alpha male may also teach u a lot about self-promote skills and this will benefits when u're out working. As they likes to be in control, he will take care of u - he will RSVP for dinner and etc, and u'll love feeling so protected.
CONS: The alpha male likes hanging out at pubs and might sometimes bore u into stuff like footballs or other cliched male topics. Worse, isn't as sensitive as the metrosexual, he'll never realise it even after hours. He might have trouble communicating or saying "I love u" and if few problem hits, he'll have no idea how to talk it through. When you're with him, you'll feel loved and idolised - he will lift u in his arms and kiss u and get snarly when guy looks at u. This is flattering but it will get u both into problems when its being done too much and often. He thinks u're not independent enough to handle stuff on your own. U might also find yourself competing with him to spare some quality time alone as he'll be too busy with his own activities. And when there is argument, he will go defensive and throw hurtful comments and accusations that doesn't help even a bit. Sometimes u have to stand on the ground and remind him u too have opinion and yours is just as valid as his.


IN THE BEDROOM
The Metrosexual
PROS: He will be sensitive and intense and won't make a big fuss of it if u're not in the mood - he'll be happy to cuddle up and have a meaningful conversation instead. When making love, he won't be in a tearing hurry but he knows how to get u in the mood and not just wanting to rush to his climax. He will be happy to set a romantic ambience and will be turned on by turning u on so he'll be sensitive to your needs.
CONS: You'll get fussy if he over-analyses things and may sometimes wishes he will just make everything simpler, and wilder. 


The Alpha Male
PROS: He will make u feel all women and tell u how sexy u look. He;ll make your love making session passionate and will be able to laugh which means he take things not too seriously on the bed if embarrassing things happen. 
CONS: He might not be a soft kisser as he tends to kiss wildly and also badly. He rush things during the session and though he is easily turned on, u might find yourself having to teach him how to improve further. Sometimes, you'll get frustrated how he doesn't like to cuddle up and when u prefer to cuddles, he thinks he is not pleasing u. When u tell him to be more gentle, he will take it personally and sulk, thinking you're being critical.


LOOKS AND GROOMING
The Metrosexual
PROS: This guy won't hold back on doing everything he can to make him look fantastic. He will work out, use moisturiser, and spend more money on clothes than u do. You'll never have to worry how embarrass he'll look because he will only present the best of himself. Which means when you're out together, you'll feel proud because he will always look groomed and hot! He may also able to refer u to the best hairdresser and won't complain when u spend your entire day looking for your clothes. When you stay over, you won't have to pick your skin care because he have it all. He also looks for high end quality product - Calvin Klein as his hot  underwear.
CONS: Your guy may spend too much blowing his hair and his obsession with look starts to get on your nerves. U may have to fight with him for your time in front of the mirror because he will take too long grooming himself. When you both are out, u may find yourself competing with him to look gorgeous. He is too appearance conscious.


The Alpha Male
PROS: He will do whatever he can that make him look sexy. He will never run u late to an event because he is still fussy on which clothes to put on or how to style his hair. When it comes to clothes and grooming, he's not hung up. He'll be ready to leave for movie and will be totally cool if u couldn't be bothered to shower or prefer staying in your cargo pants instead of dressing up. He'll be happy spending a lil extra money buying you something lovely to wear or your girlfriends their drinks.
CONS: He might not always look at his best, unlike the metrosexual . If you're going out to some special occasion, u might have to nag him to put on something more proper. You might also have to nag him to wash his hair more often or shower. Over time, u might get tired of all these, feeling like you're more like his mother rather than GF, wishing he could act like his age and get himself together when it comes to personal hygiene and right dress code.


HOW TO READ THE SIGN?
THE METROSEXUAL: 
-Perfect hair
-Expensive looking outfits
-Wear expensive and sexy underwear
-Well shaved
-Talks about what's on cinema


THE ALPHA MALE:
-Just got out of bed hair
-Faded and ripped jeans
-One day growth
-Lots of mates nearby
-Drinks just any beer
-Talks about sports a lot


So, which male are u? And which is the type of boyfriend you're looking for? Hope this helps both males and females to understand yourself or your other half better :) 


P/S: I spent all my time doing survey and typed this! Not by copy and paste! 

With love,

Renee A