- Being complete of its kind and without defect or blemish
- A state of completeness and flawlessness
- A quality, endowment, or acquirement completely excellent; an ideal faultlessness; especially, the divine attribute of complete excellence
Whatever, it's all nonsense! Because...nobody is perfect! No matter how hard we try to be, no matter how we change, no matter how well we watch ourselves, nobody is really perfect, or some may say, perfection is on the eyes of beholder, true enough :)
So, if perfection is on the eyes of beholder, why bother asking your love ones or friends to change? If their personality is the reason why you're first attracted to, but why after time to time, we started to get anxious and demand them to change? From this to that, from that to this?
This is the question I'll never know the answer, I'm sure many of us don't. Human nature is all I can conclude.
If nobody is perfect, stop asking people to change to reach your level of perfection, it's impossible, they might reach your so-called perfection level, but then they will not be them, make sense? If you yourself is not perfect, why bother asking people to change for u? Tolerance is different, it is not changing :)
In one's life, we might experienced all these before, either to families, friends or lovers, we try our very best to please them and end up being in a miserable life. Why? Simply because we feel there is a need to change, so perhaps we will be better, yes, i agree, change to be better, but not changing yourself entirely please. This is not healthy. We can't please everyone, let say initially we are A, then we changed to B, but during phase B, some people might like us, some might hate, then slowly, we change to phase C, and again, the same thing happens! See how the circle goes? It's never ending! So why bother even pleasing everyone when u can never please everyone?
Live your life the way u want it, change if it's for better, but never change YOURSELF throughly, no matter for who :) Everyone is unique in their own way, trust me, this is true!
Conclusion: Please yourself and respect those you cares! Life is too beautiful to keep stressing yourself dearies!
With love,
Renee A
3 comments:
agreed with ur POV...=)
and this post reminds me of a statement i saw somewhere, "nobody is perfect, i am nobody"...u get the meaning??
LOL at such statement...what kind of statement is that??
Whats a POV? Hahahaha! That statement is a way of people to compliment themselves :)
POV = Point of View,
I agree with your post here. For me, everybody has flaws. So it's up to someone to tell if they are flaws/beauties actually. Perfect life is about discovering beauties from someone rather than magnifying his/her flaws.
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